I was discussing dating with another friend who is a cancer survivor also. I shared my apprehensions with him, not knowing when I would feel comfortable sharing my condition, my concerns that I would not be wanted, and settling for what may come. He reassured me that this sort of experience is a great filter and that the kind of people that we will meet and accept us will lead to a much more fulfilling relationship. He is happily engaged now to a wonderful woman. Do not despair and leave yourself open to better opportunities.